Well from someone with a 'scary' 5exi, I not sure you will agree with this.
1. Yellow is currently the most common colour for the 5exi. I reckon people will mistake the car for an Elise. Maybe not such a bad thing, but not so individual.
2. I would have picked blue if it were available at the time I got mine. IIRC it is similar to the MG Rover blue used on the 'Z' cars. Very striking. What would it look like on a sports car though?
3. The Lambo Orange of the Marlin demo car is IMHO the best colour for the car. If this is what is on offer, then there is no other options.
I did a bit in Photoshop a while ago which shows the 5exi in different colours. Nothing official, but it might help.
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