Hi Craig.
First off. There is no such thing as a stupid question. Best to ask rather than chance nd mess up.
1) I think i know the one's your refering to. These I think go into the chassis at the bottom of the rad. There's two tube holes in the chassis. These go in here. Does it look like this?
http://www.johnil.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/5exi/build3.htm
2) They should be the right one's. Have you pressed in the metal inner's with the lube?
I needed to use a rubber or wooden persuader to get the bolts in.